Esther Perel: The secret to desire in a long-term relationship

Okay, so this is 19 minutes...but a really great investment if you want to learn about how to keep sex alive in the familiarity of marriage.  Can't believe that I am finally reading her book Mating in Captivity.  Foreplay is not something you do five minutes before the real thing...Responsibility and desire butt heads... Passionate couples have demystified the myth of spontaneity...committed sex is premeditated sex,it's focused and intentional...If you have been married more then five days, this is totally worth watching.  

Shirley and Jenny: Two Elephants Reunited After More Than 20 Years

Comrades...survivors in a captive world.  With Jenny by her side, Shirley stands to face her future.  Home at last, they will lie out their days together...


The joyful reunion...attachment and bonding...as they lumber off to live their life together...


Hoping this visual will help remove the chains and give a sweet picture of  hope for the future of all our marriages.